Your story about your pain is unique. Your pain may be one that will go away. It may be one that you learn to manage by modifying or deleting certain activities from your life. It may be one that will become your dance partner in life; here to teach you lessons in all kinds of unexpected ways.
Through self-correcting therapies (manual muscle therapy, massage, movement, strength training), you can begin to release your physical aches and pains. This is done by working with the existing patterns of your body. For example, if your neck hurts, we look at where it hurts (front, back, side, general, specific, etc) as well as how it hurts (sharp pain, aching pain, non-specific annoyances, crackling, etc) and when it hurts or when it feels good (hurts turning to the left, feels better when the shoulder is up, feels comfortable bent forward, pain begins when looking up, etc).
This explains the beginning of what muscles are holding you in pain, and the “pattern” of that pain. Then, we use your body to place that muscle, or group of muscles, in the most comfortable position. This is usually the way the muscle is already contracting. By doing what the body is already doing, but with less effort, we begin to send signals to the brain and nervous system that the muscle can relax and your body can realign.
Sometimes this is done passively, meaning the therapist does most of the work and you focus on relaxing. The moves can be gross, or large, movements of the entire leg, arm or back; or the moves can be very subtle, a vertebra, a section of muscle, a knee cap.
At other times, the therapist may have you participate in the movements. This helps your body integrate the changes and teaches your physical body how to move in a different way. Again, the movements may be large as in walking, sit ups, or rolling; or they may be subtle, moving the rib cage, rotating your wrist, or flattening your back.
Needless to say, when your physical body is in a comfortable position, you emotional, cognitive and spiritual bodies will also feel safe and begin to express themselves as well.